Being needed

I'm beginning to think that our genes have a lot more influence on us than we realise. I'm often getting told off by Eden especially when I call her Emma. The reason for this is not only because she looks very similar to Emma but she also comes out with the same sort of things that Emma used to say, the voice and tone are just the same. Even Sarah thinks she looks like Emma, but Eden disagrees.
One thing all my grand-children have in common is if they ring me, I can always tell when they want me to do something for them and this is a technique they've inherited from Sarah! It doesn't matter whether it's help with homework, medical advice or sounding me out about something they want for a birthday or Christmas. The last one applies to Harley in particular!
Last night it was Amber's turn because she phoned me early in the evening and the call usually starts with a compliment. When I answered the phone she said "Grandmaaaa, you know how you're good at writing letters and you always know what to write......." and this is when I knew she was going to ask for my help. I really don't mind at all because she needed advice about writing for her work experience placement and she also wants to find a weekend job but wasn't quite sure about how to put the letter together. Of course, I'm always happy to help and feel quite flattered that all of them think that Grandma has all the answers!
It's the tone of voice that they all use, just the same as Sarah's when she's asking a favour or a medical diagnosis over the phone. I hate to think what they would do if I wasn't here!